Law of attraction – Love Life and Marriage

Past few days I have received lots of queries regarding how to manifest love life and marriage through intentionally applying the law of attraction.  So I thought to put some light on this topic in today’s blog post.  I have given here different situations regarding love life and marriage and how the law of attraction works in those situations.

–> You want your desired soulmate but you don’t know who he/ she is

If you are looking for your soulmate, you must be having some qualities in mind which you are expecting while searching for your life partner.  Write down all those qualities you desire in your soulmate and write “Thank you so much god for giving me my soulmate and blessing us with a blissful married life”.  Once you do this, believe that god [Universe] will give you your soulmate at the most perfect time and in the most beautiful ways.  Especially in India, we have a tradition of arranged marriage where parents of a girl/guy find soulmate for them.  If you are looking for an arranged marriage, take all the actions which needs to be taken for searching for a suitable pair after you have done the above [writing your wish].  If you believe in Love marriage and wants yours to be a love marriage then just believe that you will meet your soulmate at the perfect time in the most unexpected ways and your dream marriage would manifest.  Universe is so loving, it loves all of us and always wants everyone to be the happiest. So have unwavering faith in the loving Universe and believe you will get your soulmate.

–> You love a guy [if you are a girl]/ a girl [if you are a guy] and want to marry but he or she is not feeling the way you feel

Many times it happens that you love someone and want to marry him/her but that person doesn’t have the same feelings for you.  People ask me in such situation, how to get that person as their soulmate.  Now it is important to know that the deliberate application of the law of attraction for getting that person’s love and manifesting marriage would work if that person is your soulmate and is on the same frequency as yours.  If he/she is not your soulmate, then you won’t be able to get them as your soulmate no matter how much efforts you put into applying the law of attraction because you cannot create anything in other person’s life against his/her free will.  So the question is now how could we know that he/she is our soulmate?  When I have any question in my mind for which I am seeking answer from the Universe, I ask for signs.  Sign could be any thing which you feel impossible to see around you like a particular kind of a bird, flower, feather, or any image or any words that is rarely seen or impossible to see in the normal course.  Whatever you feel proper to ask as a sign, you can ask.  I suggest, any rare thing because when you see it, you immediately understand that you have got the sign that you asked for.  Be open to see your sign anywhere, you could see the sign in reality or on television or in the journal or newspapers or greeting cards or toys or hoardings or calendar or simply anywhere.  Universe always does amazing things and so regarding the signs.   When you get crystal clear [absolutely clear] sign that he/she is your soulmate, then your belief will be strong in your wish and it will manifest.

When you get your sign that he/she is your soulmate, you need to believe that he/she will be yours at the perfect time and in the most beautiful way.  Universe will manifest it at the perfect time.  Your job is to give joyful feelings as if your dream marriage has already manifested and that you both are happily married.  Your job is not to think about the HOW(s) and WHEN(s), that is Universe’s job.  Visualize yourself happily married to your soulmate.  Visualize all the beautiful moments you would spent being married to him/her.  When you visualize all the details like your engagement, marriage, happy married life etc. you will feel the intense joy and that is the correct frequency you have put into the Universe and the Universe will surely manifest your desire at perfect time.  Have faith in divine timings and never doubt god’s capabilities of manifesting your desires because doubtful thoughts pushes your desires away as the law of attraction is constantly responding to your thoughts and feelings.    If you feel he/she is not with you, then these lack feelings will attract more situations that will make you feel more low.

If you did not get a sign that he/she is your soulmate, don’t be disappointed, rather do what I have mentioned in the first para above like writing all the qualities you desire in your soulmate and expressing heartfelt gratitude in advance to the Universe for manifesting your soulmate.  Always remember, initially you may feel that you can be happy only with the person whom you love though he/she doesn’t have feelings and you may repeatedly urge Universe to manifest your marriage with him/her some how, but believe me Universe will give you your soulmate and when you meet your soulmate [guy/girl other than whom you love right now], you will surely forget about the person you loved and you would fall in deep love with your soulmate because god wants both of you to be the happiest.  Trust the Universe.

–> You love a guy [if you are a girl]/ a girl [if you are a guy] and want to marry each other but other issues are there like family resistance, etc

In this case again your BELIEF in your dream marriage holds importance.  What you believe you receive.  So no matter how much difficult it may seem to convince your family or solving any other problems, if you believe, you can manifest your desire.  Trust in the Universe’s power.  BELIEVE that the Universe has the power to do impossible.  If there is any such issue regarding your marriage, first of all believe that you will get what you want.  Give out correct frequency of joy as if you have got your desire by visualizing yourself happily married to your love and that all the family members and friends are very happy for your marriage.  Visualize and feel the joy of your family members when your marriage gets fixed and then when you are married.  After you do visualization and feel awesome as if already married to your love, believe that it will happen at the perfect time.  DO  NOT DOUBT on the Universe’s capability to turn things in your favor and manifest your desires because if you doubt, then your doubts would manifest and not your desires.  The law of attraction is working all the time and responding to our thoughts and feelings.  So keep your feelings joyful as if you have already received what you have asked for and believe that everything will turn out in your favor at the perfect time and in the perfect way.  When you are constantly on correct joyful frequency, problems automatically get resolved and you will get what you desire.  Have faith in divine timings.

–> You were in a relationship but now the relationship is not going the way you want and you want to improve it and manifest your dream marriage

If there is any problem in your relationship and you want to improve it and manifest your dream marriage then I would suggest you to start with gratitude.  Everyday write down at least 10 things you feel to be grateful for, about your loved person and your relationship.  In addition to this, visualize yourself happily married to that person and feel the joy and excitement as if you have actually married to him/her.  Believe that everything will fall in place at the perfect time and in the most amazing ways.  Universe has immense powers to manifest your desires and you need to help the loving Universe to manifest your desires, by giving out joyful thoughts and feelings as if you have already received what you have asked for.  When you express heartfelt gratitude for your loved person and your relationship, you will see how magically your love life improves and your marriage is manifested.  A grateful heart attracts more and more stuff to be grateful for and when it comes to a relationship it creates a magical transformation on both the sides.

–> You and your love broke-up but you want him/her back in your life and have a happy married life

Everyday write down at least 10 things you feel to be grateful for, about your loved person and your relationship.  In addition to this, visualize yourself happily married to that person and feel the joy and excitement as if you have actually married to him/her.  Give him/her deep love through your thoughts and feelings.  If you have a photograph of both of you or only him/her, look at the photograph and give deep love to him/her through your thoughts and feelings.  Believe that everything will fall in place at the perfect time and in the most amazing ways.  Universe has immense powers to manifest your desires and you need to help the loving Universe to manifest your desires, by giving out joyful thoughts and feelings as if you have already received what you have asked for.  When you express heartfelt gratitude for your loved person and your relationship, you will see how magically your love life improves and your dream marriage is manifested.  A grateful heart attracts more and more stuff to be grateful for and when it comes to a relationship it creates a magical transformation on both the sides.

APART FROM THE ABOVE STEPS TO GET A DESIRED LOVE LIFE AND MARRIAGE, ALWAYS EXPRESS YOUR HEARTFELT GRATITUDE TO THE LOVING UNIVERSE FOR ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN ALL THE AREAS OF YOUR LIFE THAT YOU HAVE RECEIVED TILL NOW AND STILL RECEIVING EVERYDAY.  A GRATEFUL HEART IS A MAGNET FOR MIRACLES.  GIVE LOVE TO EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING AND SEE HOW UNIVERSE GIVES IT BACK TO YOU 100 FOLD.

I hope this post will help you to understand how the law of attraction creates our love life and marriage.

Love

Gargi